m0nde
09-02-2019, 12:17 PM
i want to tell you all my story, in case you missed it, these past two weeks.
i had been pursuing lily, half forum gimmick, but up for an nsa fuckbuddy relationship if it came to that.
lily was convinced that her banner contained child porn and i offered to change it. both she and kent liked the new banner a great deal and i became further involved as she asked me to fix several problems with the forum database and add-ons that were no longer working. during all this, a few rubynet posters began visiting lily's forum and we all decided to stop allowing kent to make the site about porn. the forum would try to foster general discussion with a focus on anime, manga and the hot topic, amy lee goth scene. to this end, lily deleted kent's porn threads, but still allowed him to spam low quality, copy/paste pictures in a special spam section.
during all this, i did my best to repair her forum and finally upgraded her vbulletin installation to 4.2.5. i'm happy to say, it's working better now after a thorough clean up.
by this time, lily had added me on facebook and steam, and, though i was becoming increasingly annoyed with her constant messaging, i let this continue. in becoming admin, despite the extreme overmoderation on lily's forum, fundamental in driving all new users away, i tried my best to stay out of the drama that seems to follow lily everywhere, but i was finally asked to deal with a situation between kent and a new user named digimonster triple x.
i admit, i let this issue get out of control, thinking lily could take care of it, but she reverted to overmoderation and banned kent. in protest, i quit for a few days, until lily begged me to come back.
at this point, lily asked me to deal with the incident and i created a special pink group which allowed kent to post, but not make new threads. i asked kent to apologize to digimonster triple x and wait for digimonster triple x to forgive him.
i don't believe in banning people. kent refused to apologize and threatened to leave. he contacted me on this forum, telling me he would stop posting all copy/paste spam threads if i let him post normally on lily's forum again.
in talking with lily, she one day accidentally sent me a facebook video chat. i saw her in some sort of vehicle, peering at the phone for almost a minute until she turned it off.
i was stunned at how different she looked from the way she portrayed herself and took a screenshot as proof. this really threw me for a loop and i confronted lily on her lies.
i had to share the picture with someone, to have an outside party to talk to. i chose clay, who i has dealt with lily in the past. he was surprisingly unsurprised and said something along the lines of, "yes, that'd be her, haven't you heard her voice".
after confronting lily about her lying, i began to understand how deep her deception was. she is an old lady with health problems who has few friends and doesn't like herself. she plays this young, goth girl who is overtly sexual and flirtatious, wanting people to acknowledge and validate her.
lily took what i said to heart and revealed a great deal of unnecessary information about her life to everyone here. i was expecting her to simply tell everyone her age and exactly how debilitated she was.
people on this troll forum trolled her.
this brings us closer to the present. after becoming fed up with lily's constant messaging and demands about her forum, i blocked her on both facebook and steam. later, i set her to ignore on this forum and told her to only contact me on her own forum.
so, now i've told you everything. i'm waiting for lily to post a picture of herself or for her to let me post my screenshot, so you can all share in my shock at facing the real lily.
i had been pursuing lily, half forum gimmick, but up for an nsa fuckbuddy relationship if it came to that.
lily was convinced that her banner contained child porn and i offered to change it. both she and kent liked the new banner a great deal and i became further involved as she asked me to fix several problems with the forum database and add-ons that were no longer working. during all this, a few rubynet posters began visiting lily's forum and we all decided to stop allowing kent to make the site about porn. the forum would try to foster general discussion with a focus on anime, manga and the hot topic, amy lee goth scene. to this end, lily deleted kent's porn threads, but still allowed him to spam low quality, copy/paste pictures in a special spam section.
during all this, i did my best to repair her forum and finally upgraded her vbulletin installation to 4.2.5. i'm happy to say, it's working better now after a thorough clean up.
by this time, lily had added me on facebook and steam, and, though i was becoming increasingly annoyed with her constant messaging, i let this continue. in becoming admin, despite the extreme overmoderation on lily's forum, fundamental in driving all new users away, i tried my best to stay out of the drama that seems to follow lily everywhere, but i was finally asked to deal with a situation between kent and a new user named digimonster triple x.
i admit, i let this issue get out of control, thinking lily could take care of it, but she reverted to overmoderation and banned kent. in protest, i quit for a few days, until lily begged me to come back.
at this point, lily asked me to deal with the incident and i created a special pink group which allowed kent to post, but not make new threads. i asked kent to apologize to digimonster triple x and wait for digimonster triple x to forgive him.
i don't believe in banning people. kent refused to apologize and threatened to leave. he contacted me on this forum, telling me he would stop posting all copy/paste spam threads if i let him post normally on lily's forum again.
in talking with lily, she one day accidentally sent me a facebook video chat. i saw her in some sort of vehicle, peering at the phone for almost a minute until she turned it off.
i was stunned at how different she looked from the way she portrayed herself and took a screenshot as proof. this really threw me for a loop and i confronted lily on her lies.
i had to share the picture with someone, to have an outside party to talk to. i chose clay, who i has dealt with lily in the past. he was surprisingly unsurprised and said something along the lines of, "yes, that'd be her, haven't you heard her voice".
after confronting lily about her lying, i began to understand how deep her deception was. she is an old lady with health problems who has few friends and doesn't like herself. she plays this young, goth girl who is overtly sexual and flirtatious, wanting people to acknowledge and validate her.
lily took what i said to heart and revealed a great deal of unnecessary information about her life to everyone here. i was expecting her to simply tell everyone her age and exactly how debilitated she was.
people on this troll forum trolled her.
this brings us closer to the present. after becoming fed up with lily's constant messaging and demands about her forum, i blocked her on both facebook and steam. later, i set her to ignore on this forum and told her to only contact me on her own forum.
so, now i've told you everything. i'm waiting for lily to post a picture of herself or for her to let me post my screenshot, so you can all share in my shock at facing the real lily.