it's not funny to say it, but what if, all this time, he actually has been dying of some horrible wasting disease? every time i see a pictur eof him he looks a little worse. seriously. i saw a picture lisa got from somewhere where he was in a sea of fat female faces and he looked all grey and withered with sunken cheeks. i'm sorry if all this back and forth on the inanrtnet has taken a lot out of you, dp.