fuck buddy lexicon, for those of you trying to understand the complex relationship lily and i share
nsa: no strings attached
hook up: intimacy with a person you don't consider a significant other. in the context of fuck buddies it means to meet and have sex
friends with benefits: this implies a more involved relationship, where people who share a mutual fondness also engage in sex. this is not the same as a fuck buddy. friends with benefits actually spend time with each other outside of their sexual relationship
fuck buddy: lily and i are internet friends, but we really aren't interested in interacting with each other in any way other than for sexual gratification. as fuck buddies we receive all the benefits of being in a relationship with another person but not having to deal with any of the downsides of a relationship e.g. commitment, listening to their feelings, caring. over time, fuck buddies can sometimes complicate matters a one partner may begin to develop feelings for the other. this is in direct violation of the main reason to be fuck buddies. the only thing that should pass between fuck buddies is bodily fluids, no emotion whatsoever.
i hope this clears up any confusion