I realized that I'm the one that loses. Advice?
In my marriage, I realized I'm the one that loses games when we play together. It hadn't occurred to me until I almost won something and I actually felt bad for almost winning. My husband isn't a sore loser, so it's not like he makes me feel bad about it, so I think it's a self esteem thing. But I've been thinking and I don't think I've ever beaten him at anything ever. My husband is beyond intelligent. He doesn't even have to think about math, it just comes to him. He can "solve" any game that can be solved, and thus he always wins. There is no competition between us because it is known that I am the one that loses. He gets upset that I won't play games against him since he thinks I should enjoy the challenge, but there's literally no challenge because he's on an entirely different level.
Do you ladies have any game recommendations? Video or board, doesn't matter. Any advice? I don't want to be the one that loses, I want it to be even. Or at least to win once would be cool. :(
