If anyone using the word "we" becomes subject to an existential debate of what "we" is, then we should all be paralyzed trying to conceive of what "I" is; aren't "I" just what others encourage me to be, whether I want to be or not? Aren't I made up at the molecular level of what I eat and have eaten - so aren't I technically mostly cows/chickens and corn/wheat -- or particles left over from an ancient supernova?

We must examine OB's motives to narrow down the existential argument; what could she be after? Progression in existential philosophical thought, or justifying her hate towards one of the sexes?