everyone at rubynet has been thinking about this for a while and we want you to know this is not a snap decisions on our part by any means,with that being said me and the rest of the posters at rubynet got together and decided it would be best if you just stopped posting for a while or most likely forever.. you can still totally lurk and maybe even once and a while grey rep someone here or there. we also want you to know it's not really your posting thats the problem it's how everyone reacts to your posting and your a fine young lady..