there are women like that

to them it's not about they like you or not, they are incapable of making a decision whether they like someone or not unless they see others liking that person, to women like that it's about competeting with other women and winning moer than it's about whether or not they actually like you, women like that are too shallow. I call them a type, because there is definately the type of women who operate like that and cag is one of the most textbook cases of it.