And it's not like I'm some teenager who got knocked up, I'm 35 now and I had always been carefull, like even when I was with my fiancé for 7 years, I wanted to finish university first so that I'd be able to provide better for kids.... but a temporary lapse of sanity and *pounce* I was being plucked off the street and was knocked up before I even knew what happened. It was the worst thing in my life and you know I've got a few shit things to chose from.