the only thing i think she really has going for her is that she really doesn't let alot of things people say get to her.
yes, i'm sure she's hurt by some of it, but alot of the shit i've said to her, she's come back to me the next day and understood that i've been kidding.
actually that's one of the reasons i speak to aber alot too. both of us know we're only joking, even though we rip on each other a hell of alot.
but were you really kidding though or is she just spineless