Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
Well 5 years is a decent chunk of time maks, bepending on certain socioeconomic factors it may not be advisable for us to marry in 5 years, but then again in 25 years it would be if social security still exists, it's all really relative at this point, it's just not something I am against doing. I have no problem telling a woman I love that i'd marry her at some distant point in the future. last 6 words there say volumes.
the timeframe is irrelevant, I don't care if you've been dating for 30 years there's no good reason to get married ever.

in my line of work I deal with a lot of servers, and the #1 rule with servers is if there's nothing wrong with them you leave them the fuck alone, because if you go dicking around trying to improve it you run the risk of breaking the whole thing. you do not change things that are working fine just for the hell of it. when you're dealing with something that's really important, stability is key.

so what's wrong with your relationship that makes you believe you need to change it?