Quote Originally Posted by Batty View Post
No FUCK OFF.

I have watched this guy get worse and worse as the months went on and he kept binging on drugs. I tried every which way to try and get him to stop. I was nothing but nice, kind and decent to the guy (and he's a grown man you know even if he isn't acting like it right now) until the point where he fully strarted abusing me all over the forum and harassing the fuck out of me on skype and phone. Even then I forgave him... what did he do? He did it again a few days later. I started trying to gently take a step back and what did he do? He got increasingly more and more aggressively harassing me up to the point well you've seen the shit all over the forum he has been posting for days up to the point where I literally can't stand it anymore and if it's going to come down to me having to put up with his emotional abuse, obsession and harassment or him fucking right off then I'll tell you now what it's going to be and it will NOT be me silently putting up with that shit.

I'm not his fucking mother, he's a grown man and he's fucking well 100% responsible for his own shit, not me. That is fucking pathetic bob. Fuck off.
The point you're making is valid - that he was capable of being the way he is long before he met you, and that you're not the only one who could have used him this way.
The point you're missing is your part in this - YOU were the one who ended up using him, and now you're the one here who's suffering the most for your decision.