how do you surreptitiously find a woman's ring size?

[blumpkin blownuts]

is she going to literally give you the ring back and then you return it to the store or something lmao is that something people do

depends, there's little reason to plan for that. i guess i could sell it... or have it melted down, or just keep it for the incredibly rare possibility i might one day meet someone else i love enough to marry