i wasn't dating him, why do you think I aborted? He plucked me off the street when I didn't even know who my own mother was, I left him when I became aware that he was a full blown junky, he criminally harassed and stalked me for the next two years, basically afetr I left he got arrested and started sending me all kinds of harassment and threats 24/7, I went ahead with an abortion which due to the circumstance I had no problem getting referred to