He's probably getting gyped though because I don't think I'm as nice as he is, I'm not really what you would call a "nice girl" but he knows the difference between being "nice" and just being a good person.

SO.... that looks like an adventure that will end in tears but at least he's not delusional, it's straight forward, I like him a lot, he likes me a lot and we want to meet so yeah... we'll see what happens hey? He may never get here but he'll be welcome if he does.