I love Lisa: yeah it was gross and he never respected it when I asked him to leave me alone or sleep in another bed, I ended up having to sleep on the foldout because he just wouldn't leave me alone, then he would still climb into bed with me, I would go back to my bed and he would follow even though I was begging him to sleep in the other bed, it is why I kept kicking him out and he kept refusing to leave, I felt bad for him which is why I put up with it so long