chat should have rules, like 1) whatever stays in chat happens on the forum 2) if someone calls you a nigger or tries to be an asshole to you in chat, it was trolled, but you take sriously 3) if you hate somone on forum, you do not bring it into chat, you talk civilly 4) don't lurk like a faggot, at least talk in chat if you won't get on mic or cam