fyi ob, it's not like on tv, sex is not something that's super rare it's not all lighting candles and putting down rose petals on one's wedding night, actually people fuck all the damned time there are probably a dozen people fucking within a mile of you right now and it's just a matter of going to a bar and asking girls 'do you want to fuck' until one of them says 'buy me a drink first' I don't care how fat or nerdy a guy is this always works for everyone