i got a solution for this whole plug drugs/lisa situation

[steveyos]

I never read anyone's posts usually but I full on ignore several posters posts and pd is one of them because I know like marks there's no chance of them being funny and I'm not here for anything but funny

[steveyos]

nope he's been mad at me since he made forumicon these people just can't understand they cannot be on my level I'm one of a kind

[maks]

Why don't you go post on erowid

Why don't you go post on erowid

i can just imagine plug drugs ten page long thesis on his last speed experience

[Plug Drugs]

i can just imagine plug drugs ten page long thesis on his last speed experience

even i ignore it later when i see it again, i think "gross i wrote all this bullshit?" and delete it or ignore it or whatever.
Speed makes literally anything I'm doing entertaining, and writing is just easy to me. I start off trying to say one thing and before you know it i've written 17 paragraphs of incoherent ramblings but i figure i might as well just post it instead of deleting it
its bizarre and i dont fully understand why i do it, but its fun.. to take everything i do extremely seriously for no reason

[Lisa Claus]

even i ignore it later when i see it again, i think "gross i wrote all this bullshit?" and delete it or ignore it or whatever.
Speed makes literally anything I'm doing entertaining, and writing is just easy to me. I start off trying to say one thing and before you know it i've written 17 paragraphs of incoherent ramblings but i figure i might as well just post it instead of deleting it
its bizarre and i dont fully understand why i do it, but its fun.. to take everything i do extremely seriously for no reason

your ramblings are coherent

you don't have to excuse the fact that you are able to type whole paragraphs to a dipshit who can barely string together one sentence at a time

[blumpkin blownuts]

even i ignore it later when i see it again, i think "gross i wrote all this bullshit?" and delete it or ignore it or whatever.
Speed makes literally anything I'm doing entertaining, and writing is just easy to me. I start off trying to say one thing and before you know it i've written 17 paragraphs of incoherent ramblings but i figure i might as well just post it instead of deleting it
its bizarre and i dont fully understand why i do it, but its fun.. to take everything i do extremely seriously for no reason

i wote and rambled shit on drugs all the time, i just left it in notepad files because i already knew if i published it i'd regret it

[Lisa Claus]

Why don't you go post on erowid

why don't you?

[Critic Al Bundy]

why don't you?

Eh... no, Peg. *flushes toilet*

[Lisa Claus]

Eh... no, Peg. *flushes toilet*

shut up maks

[Critic Al Bundy]

shut up maks

Eh... no, Peg. *flushes toilet*

[maks]

yeah and if he did it there someone might even read it

[Critic Al Bundy]

yeah and if he did it there someone might even read it

Eh... no, Peg. *flushes toilet*

[maks]

I love that clump thinks every shitty gimmick alt is me, I've really gotten to her

[sex with dead people]

I love that clump thinks every shitty gimmick alt is me, I've really gotten to her

You're scary that's why.

[maks]

You're scary that's why.

Then why do people fuck with me and invite my wrath? I'd still be acting cordially to both plug drugs and clump if they hadn't attacked me first... My whole posting career has been a series of fucking pearl harbors.

[Plug Drugs]

Then why do people fuck with me and invite my wrath? I'd still be acting cordially to both plug drugs and clump if they hadn't attacked me first... My whole posting career has been a series of fucking pearl harbors.

[maks]

Not at all, go back and read the archives, they'll support my point. I've been friendly with you for years, when you started making wild accusations about me I ignored it for like two days, but when you didn't stop I hit back and since pretty much everyone had a ton of animosity towards you already it was basically like flipping a switch and now the entire forum shits on you constantly. It's your own damn fault.

[maks]

Also if you're not going to leave then please stop saying that you're going to because if you're not I need to come up with a plan to force you, tia.

[Lisa Claus]

Then why do people fuck with me and invite my wrath? I'd still be acting cordially to both plug drugs and clump if they hadn't attacked me first... My whole posting career has been a series of fucking pearl harbors.

we never attacked you drop-kick

[sex with dead people]

RIP forumicon and fjs

[Lisa Claus]

I'm not scared of maks

I think he's cute when he's angry

[maks]

This message is hidden because clump was disrespectful months ago and my posting style dictates that now I have to needle her until she leaves forever

[Lisa Claus]

This message is hidden because clump was disrespectful months ago and my posting style dictates that now I have to needle her until she leaves forever

you failed to earn my respect dipshit

you had it once and YOU fucked it up

get the fuck over me or grovel for my forgiveness

[Critic Al Bundy]

you failed to earn my respect dipshit

you had it once and YOU fucked it up

get the fuck over me or grovel for my forgiveness

Eh... no, Peg. *flushes toilet*

[Lisa Claus]

what is also interesting is that a narcissist has the same traits as a 6 year old

amoral/conscienceless
authoritarian
care only about appearances
contemptuous
critical of others
cruel
disappointing gift-givers
don't recognize own feelings
envious and competitive
feel entitled
flirtatious or seductive
grandiose
hard to have a good time with
hate to live alone
hyper-sensitive to criticism
impulsive
lack sense of humor
naive
passive
pessimistic
religious
secretive
self-contradictory
stingy
strange work habits
unusual eating habits
weird sense of time

This article covers:

Common Behaviour of a Narcissist
Common Expressions of a Narcissist
Gaslighting Techniques used by the Narcissist
Narcissists refuse to remain ‘Topical’
The Narcissistic Partner’s Addiction
Healing from a narcissistic relationship - What you can do


Common Behaviours of a Narcissist

‘Me versus You’ mentality;
Competitiveness;
‘Tit for tat’ retaliations;
Striving for the ‘spotlight’ and attention;
Excessive generosity to outside people;
Uncomfortable when others are incurring attention or praise;
If can’t be centre of attention will either discredit or leave the experience;
May fake illnesses or problems to procure attention / sympathy;
Abusive verbal behaviour when angered or insecure;
Tendency toward violent and even criminal behaviour;
Inappropriate and inapplicable language in front of women and children;
Dark moods that affect others;
False promises;
Glorifies and falsifies achievements past and present;
Expects to be recognised and praised;
Finds others not complying with wants intolerable;
Extreme sensitivity to criticism;
Extreme defensiveness when confronted;
Pathological lying;
Disdain for rules, regulations, decency and morality;
Childish outbursts and behaviour;
Very little consideration for how behaviour affects others;
Extreme lack of compassion or sensitivity towards love partners (and others') problems;
Grossly unsupportive to familiars in times of need;
Brushes incidences under the carpet;
Uses allies real or imagined to back up claims and arguments;
Uses guilt and manipulation to influence love partners;
Doesn’t trust love partners;
Tendency towards unreasonable jealousy and possessiveness;
Capable of sexually degrading name calling;
Can steal, harm or hide property to sabotage love partners;
Uses vengeance, threats and intimidation to control ;
Uses excessive charm and manipulation to control;
Little (if any) sense of conscience;
Discredits love partners to gain attention / sympathy from others;
Will ‘attack’ when confronted or questioned;
Emotionally punishes love partners when feeling insecure;
Emotionally punishes love partners when they are struggling with issues, losses, grief or challenges;
Employs unpredictable and unaccountable behaviour;
Capable of ‘disgusting’ behaviour to gain the upper hand and control a situation;
Feels powerful and fulfilled when creating powerlessness in another;
Gross failure to apologise or have sympathy after creating tears, distress or trauma to the love partner.


Common Expressions of a Narcissist

“I had them eating out of my hands.”
(Believes in manipulating others to create results).

“You didn’t let me finish what I was saying.”
(After verbally maiming and then pretending there was more to say)

“Just because I didn’t do what you wanted when you wanted it.”
(A justification for receptively breaking promises)

“Just because I didn’t say what you wanted to hear.”
(A justification for verbal abuse)

“You’re the only person who misunderstands what I say. You’re totally over-emotional.”
(Same as above)

“I’m sorry, what more do you want from me.”
(Followed by justifications for the behaviour with body language that is clearly not aligned with an apology)

“How many times do I have to say I’m sorry.”
(Followed by repetitive unacceptable behaviour)

“Why can’t you just get over the past?”
(Followed by repetitive unacceptable behaviour)

“What about your issues?”
(When failing to take responsibility for unacceptable behaviour)

“You make me behave like this.”
(Same applies for above)

“You’re the only person in the world I have these problems with.”
(Same applies for above)

“You act like my mother,” or, “You’re a control freak.”
(When asked for the truth or trustworthy / accountable behaviour)


Gaslighting Techniques used by the Narcissist

Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse that is used by narcissists that is deeply insidious and difficult to pinpoint. It works by instilling confusion. If you are being gaslighted you'll lose trust in your senses, identity and common environment.

The narcissist will tell you:

What you are feeling and thinking;
An interaction that you believed was decent with another person actually had agendas connected to it;
Your body language appears suggestive to other people;
A friend or family member has made certain references about you;
You were seen in a certain place acting inappropriately;
You said or did something (you weren’t aware of) when tired, distracted, unaware, intoxicated or asleep;
Certain information was discovered about you;
Certain people (you thought were loyal) are now agreeing about your faults;
The incident (created by the narcissist) was your fault, or merely a perception based on your paranoia or unstable emotions;
An excuse for the incidence based on a ‘story’ that extracts guilt from you, whereby you feel awful for making the ‘judgement’ you did;
Other people perceive you as bossy, controlling, manipulative, uncaring, incapable etc. (defective in some way).

[blumpkin blownuts]

amoral/conscienceless (nope, my conscience is a point of pride)
authoritarian (i have no need to force my views; it's your all's responsibility to seek them)
care only about appearances (pretty much)
contemptuous (is there anything undeserving of at least a little contempt?)
critical of others (only for their own good, not to make myself feel better than them)
cruel (no)
disappointing gift-givers (yes)
don't recognize own feelings (yes, not until it's too late)
envious and competitive (yes)
feel entitled (i am entitled)
flirtatious or seductive (yes)
grandiose (duh)
hard to have a good time with (yes)
hate to live alone (yes)
hyper-sensitive to criticism (no, i seek it out)
impulsive (yes)
lack sense of humor (my sense of humor is just on a special level than everyone elses)
naive (i wish)
passive (aggressively so)
pessimistic (yes)
religious (more spiritual really)
secretive (extremely)
self-contradictory (extremely)
stingy (no)
strange work habits (no comment)
unusual eating habits (yes)
weird sense of time ('weird' is the tip of the iceberg)

[Lisa Claus]

amoral/conscienceless (nope, my conscience is a point of pride)
authoritarian (i have no need to force my views; it's your all's responsibility to seek them)
care only about appearances (pretty much)
contemptuous (is there anything undeserving of at least a little contempt?)
critical of others (only for their own good, not to make myself feel better than them)
cruel (no)
disappointing gift-givers (yes)
don't recognize own feelings (yes, not until it's too late)
envious and competitive (yes)
feel entitled (i am entitled)
flirtatious or seductive (yes)
grandiose (duh)
hard to have a good time with (yes)
hate to live alone (yes)
hyper-sensitive to criticism (no, i seek it out)
impulsive (yes)
lack sense of humor (my sense of humor is just on a special level than everyone elses)
naive (i wish)
passive (aggressively so)
pessimistic (yes)
religious (more spiritual really)
secretive (extremely)
self-contradictory (extremely)
stingy (no)
strange work habits (no comment)
unusual eating habits (yes)
weird sense of time ('weird' is the tip of the iceberg)

I was half raised by a narcissist, I really don't think you are one

We should all have a "healthy amount" of narcissism but a real narcissist, well they are well beyond a healthy amount and are quite toxic

[Lisa Claus]

I've also never made a topic saying anyone was mean

I am referring to my sig which I captured as a perfect example of maks' Narcissistic Personalty Disorder

Maks I can help you, but first you need to understand and accept that you are inherently a piece of shit

plug drugs can you please tell us about your first memory involving rep?