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Lisa Clausking steveyos01-28-2013
and that is 100% true
maks is pining after your friendship, he feels that if he can convince you that you did anything wrong at all (which you did not) that you will feel guilt and come crawling back to him, he wants you to do this because he knows you and I are friends and would like to turn you against me as part of his never ending campaign of hate to me because I once told him that I knew how to post pics.
It's all a petty little maks ploy.
he feels so low about himself that he feels a need to try and degrade people down to his level, then if he can make them feel shit about themselves he thinks they will see him as superior and worship the ground he walks on
I warned the fuckwit that narcissists HATE me and he has discovered why, they are simple pathetic creatures to me not worthy of any respect, praise or otherwise
a narcissist must be completely broken and re-built in order for them to ever become a decent human being
otherwise they are forever a piece of shit with no real feelings at all, all they want is for people to admire and worship them, that is their narcissistic supply, they will initially charm you in order to gain this and when you cease to supply the narcissist with this admiration you become a target that they feel they must destroy as you then threaten everything that means anything to them ie. admiration and worship. As soon as you cease to be a source of narcissistic supply and the narcissist cannot "destroy" you you will be tossed aside as you never meant anything to a narcissist other than to be a prop for their ever pathetic and weak ego.
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01-28-2013
i said i didn't care about reputation points to begin with because i think they're stupid, i thought everyone sort of felt the same way about them, so it seemed logical to me that in order to hint to the fact that you guys didn't like me talking to lisa, you'd tell people "lets neg rep him and see if he gets the idea". I thought it was just a nudge to me like "hey what do you think you're doing", i didnt think it was some kind of highly organized conspiracy to steal my precious rep points
when lisa told me you were the reason i was getting neg repped, i thought maybe she heard something somewhere that everyone already knew, and here's the real point, i didn't care at all so i just took it at face value because i didnt care because it didnt matter to me
and what am i a liability to? you feel like you can't gang up on lisa anymore and chase her out of town because youre worried i'll just tell her if you're fucking with her or not because i know you guys too well? ive barely told her anything about you guys, and she's barely asked me anything about this place or anyone who posts here. Occasionally (once or twice), if there's someone she hasn't met before posting, she'll ask me who they are, and that's it.
I just don't care anymore, but in order to clear my name, that is how it all is
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Lisa Clausking steveyos01-28-2013
what is also interesting is that a narcissist has the same traits as a 6 year old
amoral/conscienceless
authoritarian
care only about appearances
contemptuous
critical of others
cruel
disappointing gift-givers
don't recognize own feelings
envious and competitive
feel entitled
flirtatious or seductive
grandiose
hard to have a good time with
hate to live alone
hyper-sensitive to criticism
impulsive
lack sense of humor
naive
passive
pessimistic
religious
secretive
self-contradictory
stingy
strange work habits
unusual eating habits
weird sense of time
This article covers:
Common Behaviour of a Narcissist
Common Expressions of a Narcissist
Gaslighting Techniques used by the Narcissist
Narcissists refuse to remain ‘Topical’
The Narcissistic Partner’s Addiction
Healing from a narcissistic relationship - What you can do
Common Behaviours of a Narcissist
‘Me versus You’ mentality;
Competitiveness;
‘Tit for tat’ retaliations;
Striving for the ‘spotlight’ and attention;
Excessive generosity to outside people;
Uncomfortable when others are incurring attention or praise;
If can’t be centre of attention will either discredit or leave the experience;
May fake illnesses or problems to procure attention / sympathy;
Abusive verbal behaviour when angered or insecure;
Tendency toward violent and even criminal behaviour;
Inappropriate and inapplicable language in front of women and children;
Dark moods that affect others;
False promises;
Glorifies and falsifies achievements past and present;
Expects to be recognised and praised;
Finds others not complying with wants intolerable;
Extreme sensitivity to criticism;
Extreme defensiveness when confronted;
Pathological lying;
Disdain for rules, regulations, decency and morality;
Childish outbursts and behaviour;
Very little consideration for how behaviour affects others;
Extreme lack of compassion or sensitivity towards love partners (and others') problems;
Grossly unsupportive to familiars in times of need;
Brushes incidences under the carpet;
Uses allies real or imagined to back up claims and arguments;
Uses guilt and manipulation to influence love partners;
Doesn’t trust love partners;
Tendency towards unreasonable jealousy and possessiveness;
Capable of sexually degrading name calling;
Can steal, harm or hide property to sabotage love partners;
Uses vengeance, threats and intimidation to control ;
Uses excessive charm and manipulation to control;
Little (if any) sense of conscience;
Discredits love partners to gain attention / sympathy from others;
Will ‘attack’ when confronted or questioned;
Emotionally punishes love partners when feeling insecure;
Emotionally punishes love partners when they are struggling with issues, losses, grief or challenges;
Employs unpredictable and unaccountable behaviour;
Capable of ‘disgusting’ behaviour to gain the upper hand and control a situation;
Feels powerful and fulfilled when creating powerlessness in another;
Gross failure to apologise or have sympathy after creating tears, distress or trauma to the love partner.
Common Expressions of a Narcissist
“I had them eating out of my hands.”
(Believes in manipulating others to create results).
“You didn’t let me finish what I was saying.”
(After verbally maiming and then pretending there was more to say)
“Just because I didn’t do what you wanted when you wanted it.”
(A justification for receptively breaking promises)
“Just because I didn’t say what you wanted to hear.”
(A justification for verbal abuse)
“You’re the only person who misunderstands what I say. You’re totally over-emotional.”
(Same as above)
“I’m sorry, what more do you want from me.”
(Followed by justifications for the behaviour with body language that is clearly not aligned with an apology)
“How many times do I have to say I’m sorry.”
(Followed by repetitive unacceptable behaviour)
“Why can’t you just get over the past?”
(Followed by repetitive unacceptable behaviour)
“What about your issues?”
(When failing to take responsibility for unacceptable behaviour)
“You make me behave like this.”
(Same applies for above)
“You’re the only person in the world I have these problems with.”
(Same applies for above)
“You act like my mother,” or, “You’re a control freak.”
(When asked for the truth or trustworthy / accountable behaviour)
Gaslighting Techniques used by the Narcissist
Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse that is used by narcissists that is deeply insidious and difficult to pinpoint. It works by instilling confusion. If you are being gaslighted you'll lose trust in your senses, identity and common environment.
The narcissist will tell you:
What you are feeling and thinking;
An interaction that you believed was decent with another person actually had agendas connected to it;
Your body language appears suggestive to other people;
A friend or family member has made certain references about you;
You were seen in a certain place acting inappropriately;
You said or did something (you weren’t aware of) when tired, distracted, unaware, intoxicated or asleep;
Certain information was discovered about you;
Certain people (you thought were loyal) are now agreeing about your faults;
The incident (created by the narcissist) was your fault, or merely a perception based on your paranoia or unstable emotions;
An excuse for the incidence based on a ‘story’ that extracts guilt from you, whereby you feel awful for making the ‘judgement’ you did;
Other people perceive you as bossy, controlling, manipulative, uncaring, incapable etc. (defective in some way).
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Lisa Clausking steveyos01-28-2013
I've also never made a topic saying anyone was mean
I am referring to my sig which I captured as a perfect example of maks' Narcissistic Personalty Disorder
Maks I can help you, but first you need to understand and accept that you are inherently a piece of shitLast edited by Lisa Claus; 01-28-2013 at 10:27 PM.
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01-28-2013
Go accuse one of your irl friends of stealing $1.50 from your room. $1.50 isn't important, I wipe my ass with $1.50, but I'll bet they're still going to be offended.
and what am i a liability to? you feel like you can't gang up on lisa anymore and chase her out of town because youre worried i'll just tell her if you're fucking with her or not because i know you guys too well? ive barely told her anything about you guys, and she's barely asked me anything about this place or anyone who posts here. Occasionally (once or twice), if there's someone she hasn't met before posting, she'll ask me who they are, and that's it.
I just don't care anymore, but in order to clear my name, that is how it all is
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Lisa Clausking steveyos
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01-28-2013
if by "the whole forum" you mean like 4 out of the 7 people who still post here
here's my count:
doli, steve, barry, and sex with dead people (dont even know/care who that is, i might add)
dont know why fanfare started hating me out of no where other than it was the thing in style to do, only one who caught my off guard
you're right though, my own fault for making enemies for the fun of it
oh and garfield i guessLast edited by Plug Drugs; 01-28-2013 at 10:36 PM.
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Lisa Clausking steveyos
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01-28-2013
when lisa told me you were the reason i was getting neg repped, i thought maybe she heard something somewhere that everyone already knew
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Lisa Clausking steveyos01-28-2013
you're retarded
1. you have no friends
2. PD is not a virgin and is in his early 20's
3. I've never had sex with anyone from this forum including PD although I would if circumstances had ever allowed
4. PD is capable of being friends with people with vaginas and you are not
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01-28-2013listen plug drugs, i don't hate you, i don't read your posts but i want to murder lisa and her entire family irl, and your her online boyfriend, so you gotta go, in the ground, your dead your fucking dead plug drugs
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01-28-2013i'm gonna finish what your babysitter should have 40 years ago
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01-28-2013
now i delete most of those as i come across them. the lamest ones i leave to run into in the future to help convince me i don't want to do anymore drugs
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01-28-2013to dead bitch town
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