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[jon]

Let's start with the fact that being an alpha is a whole lot more than just ordering people around or intimidating people with the threat of violence (that's called being a bully). And it's definitely more than just being able to beat people up.

Being an alpha has to do with one's involvement in a group. More specifically, it's about the helping develop and maintaining a group dynamic, hierarchy and the functionality of the group. And this not just for your own benefit.

[Genital Doli]

Cag is stealeing my jokes and useing them while she fucks the admuins of this forum adn it needs to stop

[cagordon]

Let's start with the fact that being an alpha is a whole lot more than just ordering people around or intimidating people with the threat of violence (that's called being a bully). And it's definitely more than just being able to beat people up.

Being an alpha has to do with one's involvement in a group. More specifically, it's about the helping develop and maintaining a group dynamic, hierarchy and the functionality of the group. And this not just for your own benefit.

BACK OFF BACK UP PLAN!

[Genital Doli]

Hitler Spath! lmao! ^__^!

[jon]

Below are a list of traits that you will see in human alpha leadership. These are the traits that those engaged in the macho parody of manhood just ... don't ... get. And because they don't 'get it,' not only will they not be respected, but they won't be trusted. Instead of being looked upon as 'warriors,' they'll be looked upon as loose cannons on deck.

Alphas Look Out For Group
Before you can understand what an alpha is, you first need to understand something about the nature of power. Namely: Power is granted to you by the group. You don't have power unless other people give it to you.

Alphas Are Trustworthy
Trust is a fundamental issue of being an alpha. People do not give power to someone they do not trust to look after their needs.


Alphas Communicate
There are three important skills in leadership
1) Communication
2) Communication
3) Communication

And contrary to what some betas posers would have you believe, there's more to communication than "My way or the highway." That is usually the attitude of a beta aping this critical aspect of leadership.

Most people only think of someone 'as a leader' when he/she is making decisions, but the simple fact is that most of a leader's time is spent listening.


Alphas Have Extra Resources
A layman's definition of stress is: The belief that you don't have the resources necessary to deal with a problem.

We thought about calling this section "Alphas are calm in the face of adversity" but the simple fact is, the reason they are calm is that they know they can handle it. They have the resources.

[Autistic Spectrum]

cyberbullies lmao, dead m om smiley face,cag

[jon]

Alphas Allow Others Their Place
It is perhaps here that the absolute worst misconception about alpha behavior is made. It is also one of the fastest ways to spot a beta trying to ape an alpha. One version of this attitude is "I'm the alpha, I get the best, you get the scraps." Another version is "Everything is mine and you have no place."

Realize humans are social animals. We need other humans in order to exist. The nature of the social hierarchy is two-fold. One is so the greatest number of people can 'get by' in order for the group/species to survive (it organizes and protects the group). Two is it allows individuals within that group a place of security to obtain what that individual needs in order to survive.

Reread that last paragraph, it's THAT important to understanding alpha behavior.

The first reason is why the alpha looks out for the group. The second reason is why people are part of the group. And why they put their trust in the alpha, because he also makes sure that THEY can get what they need to get by.

didnt jon buy you a steam game

[jon]

Betas Fight More
It is the betas who get their fur all fluffed and walk stiff legged with their backs up. This basically occurs because betas do not understand the concept of sharing space ... yes, we just said they don't know how to play well with others. What they especially don't understand is that it isn't all about them.

And that is why they end fighting more ... with other betas. They aren't proving that they are alphas when they do this, they're just jockeying for position in the pecking order.

[cagordon]

Below are a list of traits that you will see in human alpha leadership. These are the traits that those engaged in the macho parody of manhood just ... don't ... get. And because they don't 'get it,' not only will they not be respected, but they won't be trusted. Instead of being looked upon as 'warriors,' they'll be looked upon as loose cannons on deck.

Alphas Look Out For Group
Before you can understand what an alpha is, you first need to understand something about the nature of power. Namely: Power is granted to you by the group. You don't have power unless other people give it to you.

Alphas Are Trustworthy
Trust is a fundamental issue of being an alpha. People do not give power to someone they do not trust to look after their needs.


Alphas Communicate
There are three important skills in leadership
1) Communication
2) Communication
3) Communication

And contrary to what some betas posers would have you believe, there's more to communication than "My way or the highway." That is usually the attitude of a beta aping this critical aspect of leadership.

Most people only think of someone 'as a leader' when he/she is making decisions, but the simple fact is that most of a leader's time is spent listening.


Alphas Have Extra Resources
A layman's definition of stress is: The belief that you don't have the resources necessary to deal with a problem.

We thought about calling this section "Alphas are calm in the face of adversity" but the simple fact is, the reason they are calm is that they know they can handle it. They have the resources.

[Autistic Spectrum]

blank quoting the admin you fucked, lol that's not the weakest shit you have ever done cag, but it's pretty fucking clsoe

[cagordon]

blank quoting the admin you fucked, lol that's not the weakest shit you have ever done cag, but it's pretty fucking clsoe

i'll blank quote him all day, all night if i want ^__^

Roobeet stop attacking your superior!

Sorry that I'm not like jon, I don't use people for attention on an Internet forum. I feel bad that you didn't find a bf, you are just being played by some losers on this website. and the other day when Debra messaged you on Facebook saying she believes in you she meant it. I don't dislike you even after you trash talked me on here for years being borderline obsessive at times... I guess I am the realist person on here because I don't look for validation. I am keeping it real not trolling anybody.

[cagordon]

ooooh noes, im blankquoting and fucking jon, i hope this doesn't hurt my forum reputation! :O

[Autistic Spectrum]

i just hope codey does not tlel your dad what you have been up too

was coyp pasting a bunch of bullshit about alpha/beta mal theory writtne by some peacocking collar popped faggot part of your cag-fucking troll plan jon?

[Genital Doli]

ya tihs realy unfunny alpha/beta discusion is greaT And everything, some real great burns al around jon and rootbeer, but can we pleas e focus on the fact taht my material and comedic stylings of the General Doli taht i work realy hard on is being used by this tiny californian stripper to get herself cool points with guys she has sex with

[cagordon]

Doli is mad ^__^

[Autistic Spectrum]

hope codey comes in here and starts talking about the red and blue pill

[cagordon]

would everyone please just stop fighting, i hate fighting

[Autistic Spectrum]

cag we are all fighting over you!!

[Genital Doli]

Im realy upset about tihs... please send me a PM explaining urself Jon and cag or else you guys are goign to be the Dane Cooks of this forum

was coyp pasting a bunch of bullshit about alpha/beta mal theory writtne by some peacocking collar popped faggot part of your cag-fucking troll plan jon?

Epic as fuuuck trollololing

[Genital Doli]

tihs forum is better when its just a bunch of aloof guys makeing fun of some guy being a retard, but whne u realize literaly everyone is a retard who did tihs exact same shit like less than a year ago, it all falls apart

i went as a douche to a halloween aprty wearing a bro tank that showed off my chest hair and a sideways hat and a pair of aviators and everyone said hot girls were checking me out all night long but i coudlnt see them because i was wearing aviators

[Genital Doli]

it becomes petulant litle fags trying to prove tehmselves as the least gay for doing really gay shit

[cagordon]

tihs forum is better when its just a bunch of aloof guys makeing fun of some guy being a retard, but whne u realize literaly everyone is a retard who did tihs exact same shit like less than a year ago, it all falls apart

shut up lol

^ cag's idea

^ incidental lesson in how not to be a whiny beta bitch

^ healthy doses of self-awareness

elaborate cag + person x skype troll #45

the downside iof being a girl-attracitng alpha male ladies, we canst see you through our shades

[Genital Doli]

shut up lol

No.