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in the program guys are supposed to get numbers from guys, girls get numbers from girlsQuote:
Originally Posted by 0bnoxious0ne
i don't know who or what the fuck something like you gets numbers from so i'll spell this out for you more clearly this time: STFU, you are clueless
i had no idea you were gay bob, but it doesnt matter to me i accept you for who you are
we exchange numbers with the same sex for support
this is the fourth number i've gotten from a girl in the program, every time except one it was with the intention of hooking up
the other one was a girl friend (not a girlfriend) whom i love like a sister (read: easy to talk to and unattractive)
Do you think you would ask her "wanna be my girlfriend?" i know it's annoying because you may get rejected, but i don't recommend you to label her as "friend" huge waste of time
i guess girls are easier o talk to abotu guys bob, you can share secrets about whos the cutest boy in the club
my sponsor's easiest to talk to except about girls because he's married
Probably he has a lot of money than youQuote:
Originally Posted by blumpkin blownuts
that's kindof a stupid thing to ask a girl i just met.. it's something i'll bring up tactfully once we've been seeing each other awhileQuote:
Originally Posted by juji
usually i go with the whole "so i was wondering, what are we? i mean are we exclusive now because i'd like that..."
yes, yes he does. and his wife makes even more money than he doesQuote:
Originally Posted by juji
How do you know about it?Quote:
Originally Posted by blumpkin blownuts
because we talk, and i've seen their house several times for social get-togethers, as well as one-on-one to work on the 12 Steps
Probably they are owners of business
Probably you're getting too curious about this
So you said he is your "sponsor"
Anyway I spent 6 hours talking and doing NA stuff already tonight
I just made this thread so people worried about me for being depressed about being single could relax a little and cheer me onward to what will hopefully develop into a wholesome relationship
Do you think can you declare her as your new girlfriend?Quote:
Originally Posted by blumpkin blownuts
i dont think you should be "talking" to your mentor you homewrecker
jk bob, go slay that pussy
Yes, in 12 Step programs you're supposed to have a sponsor, who guides you through working the 12 steps, and is your confidant you can tell shit to that may be too private to discuss openly in the meetings. It's not like a corporate sponsor, it's just someone you trust to help you through things that are bothersome or hard to understand and help you decide not to use whenever you are craving dope or alcohol.Quote:
Originally Posted by juji
What is 12 Step programs?
Is like this http://12step.org/ ?
I still barely know her, we're going out this weekend and see if we spark a more complete attraction, if so then we'll date for awhile, then if I feel like she's the only person I want to date I'll see if she wants to go steady. It's pretty basic stuff.Quote:
Originally Posted by juji
Got photos?Quote:
Originally Posted by blumpkin blownuts
Send me PM if you want to avoid flagerchat's sniffer
There's alot of contingencies obviously. She could find out that I'm a big huge creep. Or she might find a guy she lieks more. Or I might find a girl I like more (yeah right). Or she could move away. Or get hit by a plane crash.
Everything has to line up perfectly... the odds are against us by default.
No I don't have photos... she's like a 7/10 plus she has these soft, kind eyes and a quiet soothing voice like a nursery school teacher.
Anyway I'm going to bed. I'll leave you with a song about finding love while trying to recover from addiction
Bob is so gay that he lisps.Quote:
Originally Posted by Garfield
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Originally Posted by blumpkin blownuts
hi there im not sure who you are but dont ever quote my posts again thanks in advance
http://i.imgur.com/NU3bqkx.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by blumpkin blownuts
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