Quote Originally Posted by m0nde View Post
if your friendship matters, and i think it does since you've talked to her for 2+ years and bonded over a very difficult situation, you need to talk to her on her terms and at least a few times do what she wants you to do until you understand exactly what's going on

you'll have to make the sacrifice to just swallow your words and listen to whatever grievance she has
I’m sick of arguing with her, she seems to have a problem with me everyday

I love her and I listen to her constantly, you have no idea how much she talks lol she talks non stop for hours, I actually love it but I DO listen to her.