They don't usually go for it right away, but I always tell the customers to keep their hands at their sides because it is really hard to give a dance when some idiot is pulling on your arms and trying to have a snuggle struggle with me instead of an actual lap dance. A strip club newb will try to jam their fist in their right away, a strip club veteran (usually a really gross socially awkward ugly guy) will test by inching his hands closer and closer to the goods. I have a special saving account for the therapy I'm going to need for all these near-rape incidents.