Why am I coming here to talk about this? It's sort of because you're all the worst possible people to talk to about it.
Anyone at this forum KNOWS to double-check their facts when it comes to, well, basically anything at all, before ever applying it to themselves. Why? because this place is apeshit, but it knows not to take something too far. Why? Because you're all smart, and good with words, which means you're good at coming together with other people to fix problems