Not forgetting rootbeer "didn't want to fly economy" so was getting first class tickets, I'm not privy to what class the tickets were that he kept cancelling without my knowledge until it was time for him to go home and told me he had cancelled his return flights and did not get a refund.

I don't know but I don't know why, if you have money to burn like that and are making all the decisions about what and how you spend it on, you could turn around and try and blame someone else for it.